The Phase of Life

Just after i posted the previous post below, i had some conversation with Mr. Burhan, one of a senior employee in my office. I'm not sure excatly what we've been talking about, just suddenly our conversation come to "the phase of life". I said, " Maybe Allah has believe me to step to the next phase of my life". Then he replied, " I'm sure. And do u know there are three phase of life people have.
1st : When we cry, but people lough. That is when we were born
2nd: When we lough, then people also lough. That is when we were married.
3rd: When we silent, people cry. That is when we die. "